Your own Relay.
If you want to have your own relay on a remote server but don’t have the know how to set it up. Then cloud fodder (npub10np…tl5h) has the tool for you. https://relay.tools/
It’s what I did to get mine up and running in short order.
You can see example of the dashboard at my relay here
https://Bevo.nostr1.com
wss://Bevo.nostr1.com
Cudos to cloud fodder (npub10np…tl5h) for making this tool for us plebs.