mleku on Nostr: i need to set up a relay again and start with the long form work... need it to let me ...

i need to set up a relay again and start with the long form work... need it to let me restrict posting events to it that only make reference to my pubkey and not in my mute list cloud fodder (npub10np…tl5h) you are an expert on this, can you throw something up like this, if so you're hired